Tammy Sweeden “Reineri” = Gold Digger
Alias: Tammy G. Reineri
Tammy Sweeden Reineri has caused much stress, illness and financial hardship. I’m slowly healing. However, I want to thank you, the “Volunteers”, for helping with this website. Thanks to all the pro-bono professionals and the trusted volunteers who help with monitoring various emails. Your help is appreciated very much. Thank you all for helping get the word out about this horribly corrupt woman, Tammy Sweeden Reineri.
This blog is meant as a warning for others.
If ONE bank account, ONE diamond ring or one LIFE is saved due to this blog, then I’ve done my job. If I saved anyone from the cruelty and the mental anguish of associating with Tammy Sweeden, then my job on this website will be a celebration. So far, the local law refused to do their job … I hope this blog will.
The first few months I knew Tammy Sweeden Reineri, I felt something wasn’t right about how she always hinted for me to pay her bills. This placed a barrier between us. Even though I helped her financially for several years – I lost any intimate desires. I naturally started to separate myself and she knew it – but she obviously wasn’t done with me yet.
Naturally, I’ve had time to reflect about me and this woman we call Tammy Louise Sweeden “Reineri”. When I look back almost 10 years ago now – she never liked me, never loved me – matter of fact, she wanted me DEAD.
All she wanted was what I had – and it wasn’t much – however, she wanted whatever she could get. Yes, it saddens me to look back and think how I wasted those years with a “parasite” and also how she used sympathy and my compassionate nature to swindle money from me over the years.
Since 2009, I wasn’t even intimate with her or had any desire to be. She was a just woman I knew and cared about – who needed help.
To Tammy Sweeden “Reineri”, I was just an object to be conquered. I think back, and she never was interested in who I was or my back ground. She was never interested in telling me about her life – it was always like prying candy away from a child.
She kept most of her life a secret – however, she kept tabs on everything I was doing. She even snooped and found my passwords to all my email accounts and was monitoring my emails for months. A psychopath likes to keep her target under control.
Tammy Sweeden Reineri
Loves Money so much – she will Murder for it!
Tammy Sweeden Reineri was already in her early 40s when I met her and she was not in the best of shape. However, within a few months – she dropped a considerable amount of fat off her body and began to look more attractive.
Naturally, this was to be her lure to keep me hanging around and to lure other possible on-lookers. Gold diggers use their sex, their body, clothes, jewelry and their charm to attract men.
Lucky me – I met a woman who isn’t only a Gold Digger, but she is also a narcissistic psychopath. She was determined to steal what little money I had. I didn’t have millions of dollars and I was not a wealthy man – however, Tammy Sweeden Reineri thought she was entitled to my savings and my inheritance – she wanted it ALL.
This blog post will help you determine if the woman or man you meet is after your money or what you can give them or do they really want you as a person and a person of good character.
A long-term partnership means depending on each other through the ups and downs.
The big difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger will disappear or leave once they got what they want from you or if you’re no longer able to provide for them financially in a way they want. A gold digger (Tammy Sweeden Reineri) is nothing but a “parasite”.
A good person can appreciate your financial resources, but a gold digger appreciates only that, and will not see the relationship as worthwhile if it appears to her that you do not have enough money or influence for her.
A gold digger will manipulate you by dropping hints that they’re having trouble paying their bills (sometimes they might even ask you directly for a “loan” ).
They know that you WOULD not want to see them get EVICTED or get their car repossessed, and you’re a good compassionate person who’s in a FINANCIAL position to help. But there’s a difference between a gold digger and someone who’s just fallen on difficult or hard financial times.
Look for signs that she makes poor financial decisions.
Do they buy a brand new car with luxury features when they’re struggling to pay rent? Do they buy EXPENSIVE shoes or watches OR expensive cosmetics when their phone service is at risk of getting cut off?
Does SHE go to expensive restaurants when their credit
cards are maxed out?
Many gold diggers know better than to ask
you to fund their EXPENSIVE tastes, at least in the
beginning; they will manipulate usually through sympathy to help them afford the things they need (food, shelter, transportation) so that they can spend their own money on the things they want.
This method of using sympathy and your compassion is nothing new. A gold digger is simple a con artist. Here’s what you can do to combat the gold digger. When they discuss their financial PROBLEMS, suggest ways in which the suspected gold digger can make money fast.
When you mention the possibility of them selling their
luxury car, GOLD WATCH, diamond bracelet, mink coats or any other expensive item that could keep them from becoming homeless or having their utilities cut off or car repossessed, how do they respond?
The average person will be saddened and may even become angry or upset, but a gold digger will be appalled at the very idea that they
should have to give up their prized possessions in order to meet their own basic needs.
A gold digger will treat your idea as goofy and just crazy. More often than not, their dismissal of the idea will be accompanied by anger or even rudeness. This is a very subtle pointer that would give you a very good sense of their SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT.
Look for a sense of entitlement. Gold diggers feel that
they deserve to be treated well, and that includes
knowing that someone is willing to spend money on them.
Have you noticed unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment?
This sense of entitlement is one of the symptoms of narcissistic behavior, which has other symptoms that a potential gold digger might harbor:
•grandiose sense of self- importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
•preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power,
brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
•believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can
only be understood by, or should associate with, other
special or high-status people (or institutions)
•requires excessive admiration
•lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with
the feelings and needs of others.
•often envious of others or believes that others are
envious of him or her.
Ask a Gold Digger meaningful questions.
•What is the best gift they’ve ever gotten? Gold diggers will almost always cite an expensive, material object, not a uniquely personal and thoughtful gift. They complain about how cheap someone was too and how they wouldn’t buy them what they wanted.
•What’s the biggest thing you ever had to give up to do or get something you really wanted? What you’re searching for here is evidence of delayed gratification – the ability to give up something now so that you can achieve something greater, later. Gold diggers are notoriously spoiled or sheltered, and have never had to really wait, work, or struggle for what they want because somehow, someone was always there to help.
Take note to the type of questions they ask you. Certain questions which might seem harmless might really be an attempt to judge your ability to provide. None of these questions, alone, should get you worried but all of them on the first date
should definitely send up a red flag:
•How much do you make a year? Why would she ask this question? Because a gold digger is a mobile calculator, therefore every question that relates to money is calculated to determine the percentage of the total amount that she/he believes she/he “deserves”.
•Are you a homeowner? And what type of car do you
drive? Do you own other properties? They are trying to determine your overall worth and whether being with you is a profitable investment for them.
•How many kids do you have? Your answer to the
question will help her/him determine (calculate) much of your income and attention goes to your children and how much time you can devote to HER. A gold digger is a needy individual that will take up a lot of your money, time and energy.
Search for signs of generosity and gratitude towards you. If a gold digger every pays for anything for you or does anything extra for you – it’s only because it is a disguise to hide who they are. Anything they do for you – is to only lure you into a web of deceit.
A person doesn’t develop gratitude and generosity
overnight. A gold digger, like Tammy Sweeden Reineri, resents anytime she did anything for me.
Here’s a simple TEST. This is good to see what type of reaction you might get. Indulge in a pipe dream. A pipe dream is basically a long shot. Take on of your childhood fantasies and run with it.Tell the person you’re dating that you’re thinking about becoming the mechanic, farmer, supermodel, writer,[insert dream career here] you’ve always wanted to be.
Explain how if you were to ever do this, it would require a significant lifestyle change; you’d have to go back to school, relocate, or whatever would make it clear that your standard of living will go down dramatically. How does SHE respond? Does SHE seem concerned?
That’s normal. A good person will encourage you to follow your dreams while simultaneously helping you think of ways to do it practically and responsibly. A gold digger will usually look horrified or disgusted and say things like “You’re not really serious, are you?” OR they are ready to call it quits and leave because you are paying attention to “YOU” instead of “them”.
Sometimes it’s a good thing to help certain people. Sometimes, if you’re financially capable, you could help someone from being homeless or help an aspiring artist or entertainer launch a career, but you have to be careful that you don’t fall into a pattern where your help become the norm, so much so that without your financial assistance, the relationship will crumble or they disappear.
If you’re the kind of person who has trouble saying “no”, or who is intensely sympathetic and compassionate, you’re more likely could get ripped off by a gold digger. You might also face the feeling that this is one of the most attractive or intriguing people you’ve ever dated, and you don’t want to ruin your chances, but don’t be fooled by a good looking exterior. It could cost you. Remember, often times, a gold digger’s lure is her body, her face, her smile and her charm. Don’t get conned.
Again, you should listen closely to their “research” questions. The questions might seem innocent, but think about what they mean. Questions such as; “What do you do?” and “Where do you live?” These can be questions regarding how to calculate your net worth and lifestyle. In any case, do not answer these questions directly – but start out by explaining your life story. What things happened to you as a child/teenager that shaped the life you live
today?
A person who is truly interested in who you are will listen intently and ask questions of a more personal nature – whereas a gold digger will not have the patience to get to know you first; they will only want to find out your current financial position before investing any time in you. Gold diggers in a social situation will work the room and are “on the clock”. The longer you can delay telling them what you
do, they will be unable to size you up and you stand a
better chance of weeding them out.
Here are 10 quick signs – you can use to determine if SHE might be a gold digger.
1. A gold digger craves status. She does not have long term goals. She feels she is entitled to anything you have or own. She’s a parasite and does not feel she needs to do anything to achieve it.
2. Your ego is boosted when you consider that she’s so
much hotter than you are, but bear in mind that this could be a bad sign. No offense, but if SHE’S a LOT better looking than you are, you have to wonder what she’s hoping to gain from the relationship. If you happen to have a fat wallet to accompany your great head of hair, it could be a sign that she’s hoping to increase her wealth by associating herself with YOU.
3. Instead of climbing the corporate ladder, the gold digger uses boyfriends as stepping stones. In fact, looking back on her relationship history, you’re likely to find that each guy she’s dated has been richer than the last. You’re her promotion to a more fabulous, expensive life. She’s a parasite seeking a new and better host.
There is also a very good website called http://girlscallyou.com that provides quality information about women and “gold diggers”.
4. The gold digger, Tammy Sweeden Reineri, craves high status, she achieves it by how she looks, dresses, her smile and her charm. She’ll regularly snub people whom she perceives as having lower status, like the homeless or those working in service jobs. On dates, she’s more likely to appear impressed by men who own expensive toys, than if they mention they help out at soup kitchens for the homeless on Sundays.
5. You may see HER use her sex appeal – in order to get what she wants from men. She unbutton her blouse to reveal some cleavage or wear an extra short skirt. The gold digger uses her looks for short-term gain, and she probably charmed you that way too. But she doesn’t use her looks for long-term goals, simply because she doesn’t have any.
6. A gold digger will always dress in her finest clothing and look the best she can. She will seldom go outside of her home without looking the best she can. This is her lure. The gold digger will always dress to impress. But it’s with other people’s money.
A gold digger is always on the look out for competition and is highy competitive with other pretty women. She does not associate herself with other beautiful women. A gold digger is extremely insecure and keeps other beautiful women away from their target.
7. If you’re out to dinner and drinks with a gold digger, she will pretend the bill never arrived and doesn’t exist. It’s always up to you to settle it, and she never or seldom will offer to pay or go Dutch. Basically, a gold digger takes for granted that you’re a gentleman, and when it comes to shelling out money, you’re the one for the job.
8. The gold digger will ask you questions about your promotion at your job to see if you’ll be able to get her what she wants during the relationship. Her probing questions isn’t because she really wants to know about your situation – it’s always about what you money and status will get HER.
9. A gold digger may have other girl friends who are also gold diggers, but she may not bring them around you. Pay attention to who she talks about and what she tells you about them. If she talks about them taking advantage of men, she’s probably a gold digger as well. “Birds of a feather usually flock together”.
10. Here’s another TEST. When it comes to giving her a gift on valentines or birthday or whenever – give her a sentimental gift like a poem or CD that remind you of the day you met or something. Something that is heartfelt. Something that is very inexpensive. She may give you a “strange blank stare” or look at you with curiosity. She may ask you if this is some sort of joke? Naturally, she prefers diamond ear rings or a diamond necklace or maybe a gold watch.
The gold digger is eager for gifts smothered with money instead of just sentimental value.
If Tammy Sweeden is unable to use “marriage” as a method of stealing money from you in a divorce settlement (if you have any) – then she’ll simply develop a plan to Murder you, then steal what you have. In my case, she simply snooped around and stole my valuables – my retirement funds, then as a “thank you” gift she fired a bullet into my chest and left me in a pool of blood. I’m hauled off by ambulance the next day – she’s gone spending my retirement funds singing “oh happy days are here again.”
Join the Cause. Help me put Tammy Sweeden Reineri and others like her in a CAGE! It doesn’t matter if it takes me another year, 5 years or 20 years. I will do my best to put Tammy Sweeden Reineri in a CAGE so she cannot harm others.
“Evil Can Only Prevail When Good People Do Nothing!”
