Tammy Sweeden shot me in the chest and stole my life-savings. My biggest problem is HOW can I possibly forgive her?
“Forgiveness is for ME … not for Tammy Sweeden.”
Tammay Louise Sweeden = Sweeden
I realize the only way for me to get past the wrong that was done to me by Tammy Sweeden; is to forgive her and “untie” her from my mind, body and spirit. Anyone who purposely creates a plan and then acts on that plan to financially or physically harm you in order to enhance their own life – then that PERSON is in fact your ENEMY.
Many people have experienced giving and giving and giving to a person and received nothing in return or felt cheated. Yes, reality can STING. Tammy Sweeden wasn’t happy with just me helping her, Tammy wanted it ALL. Tammy’s demon is her GREED. She went through my house and stole anything of value – not only my life-savings. She wanted it ALL!!!
It’s a shame we have to live in a world of enemies and predators, but that is life and we all deal with it the best we can.
“Forgive” means literally to “UNTIE.” The fastest way to free yourself from an ENEMY and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loosen yourself from that person’s ugliness. Hatred of anyone is toxic to your body. It’s poison.
I’ve realized over the years, “Forgiveness is for me, not for the other person.” It does not mean I will forget. It is never wise to forget your learning experiences. It’s a fact that not all of our fellow humans are trustworthy. Painful memories can serve to protect us from future hurts. Forgiveness is not acceptance of wrong behavior.
I loved Tammy Sweden for 7 long years. I quickly fell out of love with Tammy in 2009 after she embezzled over $9,000 from me. It was tough to be intimate with a woman I didn’t trust. I could no longer be with her. However, I will admit, I stil fiancially helped her from time to time, however this was after many months of her convincing me she would pay it all back. I promised not to turn into the DA.
All I ever wanted was for her to be happy, healthy and be at peace with herself. Tammy has years of pinned up anger. Most people know you must “love” your self before you can love anyone else. Tammy Sweeden “acts” like she loves people, however she has ZERO love to give. I always wanted Tammy to love herself, but she never could. Tammy places value on what she can “BUY” and has very little value for herself or others. Tammy expressed a few times of killing certain people and also admitted she had thoughts of suicide. Tammy Sweeden was depressed with long crying spells most of the time with spurts of smiles and laughter.
I was in denial of her dark-side and besides I never thought she could or would try to murder me. After all I was the person she called her “best friend”.
Do I regret knowing Tammy? Well, the only things I regret is wasting all my hugs and my precious time with an actress or a woman I never knew. Tammy placed zero value on my giving nature, my graciousness and my love for her.
Believe it or not, I partially blame myself for being a victim to Tammy Sweeden. If you place a valuable object within reaching distance of a small child, then is it completely the child’s fault if the child breaks or takes it?
I’m simply guilty of trusting too much.
I watched Tammy Sweeden make several wrong choices during the seven years I knew her and she watched me get cheated by those I trusted. When you’re a victim it feels like a piece of your “soul” is ripped away. Being cheated by those you trust is the worst type of betrayal. It hurts and it’s painful. Tammy and I had many talks about life, trust and how some people are incapable of having empathy for others. I believe Tammy Sweeden knew she was one of those people. For seven years I had been engaging, talking and sharing my most intimate thoughts with my ENEMY.
Life is dangerous. We live in a world or jungle filled with billions of strangers. Sociologists say at least 5% to 10% of society are dangerous psychopaths or sociopaths. Some people are more cautious than others when bringing others into their “world” for fear they may be one of these dangerous people. Tammy Sweeden is one of these predators.
All the tell-tale signs were there – I just didn’t wise up completely until it was too late. I recently discovered Tammy Sweeden has a history of cheating, lying and deceiving people. Tammy has been cheating and stealing from others most of her life. Tammy purposely kept me from those who knew her history. A con-artist will snoop on you, retrieve all your private information while they guard and keep their information and their history a well guarded secret. This is Con-Artist 101.
Tammy Sweeden attempted to take my life or MURDER me, then she stole my entire life-savings (my retirement). She stole it ALL for herself.
The best medicine I have right now to combat Tammy Sweeden is to live a healthy, successful, joyful, happy and fulfilling life. Tammy will never have a fulfilling and loving life. No matter how much money Tammy Sweeden has or steals, she will always be tormented with mental and emotional pain. She is alone with her “demons” and that must be hell.
Tammy Sweeden stole my life-savings (retirement) and attempted to murder me, but I survived. I’m alive to live another day. She left me nearly penniless without any remorse whatsoever. I will forgive, but will never forget.
I still have my health and I’m recovering from the gun shot wound and the lung surgery. I’m gaining my strength back daily and I still have a good mind. My life is not over, I just did not expect this challenge at my age. I often have overwhelming thoughts of having to start all over at nearly 60 years old with nothing. I’m supposed to be retired and living a stress free life with a fishing pole in my hand. Tammy Sweeden stole this from me.
The only way Tammy Sweeden will be right with god and herself is to provide a deep heart felt apology and return what she stole from her victims. This is the only way Tammy Sweeden can possibly live the remaining part of her life in peace.
I’m grateful of those who have been supportive of me during these times. Thanks.
If you’ve discovered for yourself what Tammy is about and wish NOT to be her friend any longer, then speak up. Email any and all personal information concerning Tammy Sweeden. Do not allow her to intimidate or bully you. Email her information to: Idahogolddigger@gmail.com I promise, YOU will remain confiden.
Let’s set the record straight. I do not hate Tammy Sweeden. I know this will confuse most people. Tammy has mental and emotional problems and she inheriently makes bad choices. I do not wish her any physical harm. Tammy Sweeden, I believe was highly influenced by her secret lover and Tammy is a very greedy munipulative dangerous woman. I believe she requires much therapy and I want what is left of my life-savings. As far as my gun shot wound, I’m glad to be alive and my wounds are healing. If you have any information about Tammy Sweeden, then please contact me now.
